Be a woman of value who speaks up and knows her bottom line about how she wants to be treated. This post comes from Group Therapy in our Très Sugar Community. We talk on the phone every day, and see each other at least twice a week.I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.
I'm usually pretty open with him when it comes to talking things out, but for some reason the thought of approaching him with this terrifies me.
Just because he’s online doesn’t mean he’s dating anyone else. xo Sandy What’s the nice way to say- so if you like me (only) so much, what are you doing on our time?
But you do need to be sure you’re on the same page in order for you to feel valued.
I know I am being sneaky/snoopy by checking up on him to see how often her goes on the site (and he goes on often! It’s not like I’d call this guy my boyfriend already, I know it’s still early… Author’s note: I have expanded the content of this article since it’s original post (as I do from time to time).
This is thanks, in part, to your excellent comments and questions from the audience.