That also counts for unspoken expectations of her on you and believe me, normally she has a lot!
The other thing is, eventhough a lot young Chinese women act like a modern, independent person but when a relationship becomes serious enough for an foreseeable long future, you'd have to take account of the expectation of the family behind her.
Many of the Millennial (九零後) students that I taught at Shantou University in 2014 clearly remembered discussions during that holiday gathering.
For some of them it was the first “sex education” they received.
Although both Chen and his female partners were affected, the women had trouble convincing the public that they were also victims of having their sex lives maliciously exposed online.
Intimate photos of Chen with various women, including a number of actresses from Hong Kong, were illegally distributed via the Internet.
Per traditional expectations, both sexes place a low priority on sexual behaviors, yet more progressive attitudes and behaviors are also evident.
Women, in particular, appear to be more focused on pragmatic qualities in prospective partners.
Because family values are still very high and deep in Chinese society.
Assuming you're referring to dating Chinese people from the PRC, and American people from America, and remembering that we're all individuals- here goes my personal (and hence limited) experience: Chinese dates: Obviously, these aren't indicative of everyone in those groups- but there is a prevailing attitude thanks to a different cultural climate.